Sex Purpose Love: Couples in Integral Relationships Creating a Better World

Sex Purpose Love addresses the complexity of love relationships in the 21st century. It shows the importance of healthy sustainable love relationships with a shared purpose for addressing the global challenges that humanity is facing.
The book applies Ken Wilber's acclaimed Integral theory of human growth and potentials to the areas of sexual relationships, finding and living our purpose, a new form of love, and couples creating a better world.

Part 1 about the Sexes outlines how singles and couples can co-create healthy Integral love relationships by meeting each other at their level of development (e.g. consciousness, spirituality, sexuality and anima/animus complex), and learn, heal, grow, and awaken together.

Part 2 about Purpose shows how individuals can identify and then share their life s purpose with an equal and opposite partner to co-create a healthy lifelong Integral relationship that serves the greatest good for the largest number of people and thus makes the world a better place.

Part 3 about Love provides a new Integral vision for love between partners at the level of all seven Chakras (material, sexual, power, emotional, creativity, wisdom, and unity) and even more so for what is uniquely co-created between them. It shows how to move from asymmetric, transactional, need and power based love to transcendental love.

Part 4 about Creating a Better World provides data and good reasons why couples with children in healthy lifelong Integral love relationships are better off than singles, and essential for creating a better world and future in which everyone can flourish.

Sex:
The more we learn and evolve, the more we seem to struggle to co-create healthy sustainable love relationships. As a consequence, the number of divorces and singles is on the rise around the world. The application of Ken Wilber s Integral theory of human growth and potentials to love relationships provides us with the necessary insights and tools for ending the battle between the sexes and for creating healthy sustainable love relationships.
It is important to note that people from all walks of life and levels of education or consciousness can learn about and apply the Integral Love Relationship model.

Purpose: Few people know that having a deep sense of purpose that serves the needs of others leads to happier, healthier and longer lives, and that sharing a greater purpose with a partner is key for long-term relationship success. Part two outlines four discovery methods for identifying, living and sharing our purpose.

Love How to create lasting romantic love remains somewhat of a mystery and elusive for many. Part 3 of the book combines Hegel s dialectical model with eastern philosophy and western science to demystify what human love is. These new insights allow us to develop a model for love as an active choice that is healthy and sustainable, and not just something that we seek, need, attract, or fall into.

A Better World: Shows why co-creation and procreation in Integral love relationships matter for making the world a better place and for a sustainable future for all humanity. Most people in modern and postmodern societies assign the highest value or priority to individuals. In contrast, the ILR model shows that we are relational beings and that being in healthy lifelong love relationship is essential for becoming fully human (at the level of all seven chakras in all four quadrants by balancing and harmonizing feminine and masculine polarities) and fundamental for creating a better world.